Stepping Into A New School Year
Here are three things to think about, should you be walking someone you love to a new doorway this week:
With independence comes empowerment. If a child can change their own shoes without adult help, it affects their mindset for the day. How can you facilitate this? Buy shoes that are easy to manipulate; even a two year old can change their footwear independently if the shoes are slip-on, or feature Velcro as a means of opening and closing. Avoid lace-up shoes until your child can actually tie a bow. A child who feels able to take care of independent dressing seems to walk with more confidence, and embraces academic challenge with a positive attitude.
As an adult, you must walk the walk. If you truly trust the teacher, you must convey this trust through positive body language when you say your goodbyes at the door. If you are nervous, your child will pick up on this and wonder why you are leaving them in a place where you yourself do not seem to be comfortable. Be calm, be supportive and let your facial expression and your body language be reassuring to your child.
Lastly, let this transition be beautiful but brief! Lingering around the doorway while watching other children enter the school or classroom often makes the final parting more difficult for your child. Strive for the perfect balance, where you do not feel rushed but yet complete your farewells in a positive but efficient manner.
Question or concern for the teacher?
Don't speak it at this important moment. Write it down on a scrap of paper and simply hand it to the teacher. If it's urgent they will reassure you; it's best not to detract from the child's focus on their important first steps into school. .
Enjoy these special September mornings, and please feel free to contact me with specific questions relating to drop-off. It's a really important part of your child's day!
